Relationships today are in serious trouble and we know it. So we ask ourselves what can we do about it? Maybe we can learn to communicate better. Maybe we can spend more time doing things together. Maybe we should talk to someone or get some counseling. But we’ve been through all this before. We’ve had failed relationships in the past, but we didn’t really understand what went wrong there either—so what’s wrong with this picture? Whose fault is it? Or is anyone to blame? How did we get to this place? How do we get out of this place? Maybe we’ll have to throw in the towel, again. And so it goes….